Effective Ways to Secure Families

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WHEN is not a few families who felt a lack of closeness amongst family members. To strengthen family relationships, let's follow the 8 ways are quite effective and easy to do.

If the relationship amongst family members closely nurtured, both physical and emotional relationship, then a harmonious relationship in married life would be interwoven in their entirety. It is very important, because it is not currently a bit found in a family, even though they remained in one place, but the closeness that exists has been minimal, not even happen.

It is said by experts from Radani Edutainment emotional intelligence, Hanny Muchtar Darta Certified EI, Psych-K SET that the times are so fast it has impacted on the dynamics within the family. Especially in terms of emotional connec tion among members keluarga.Keadaan can reduce the intensity of family members to communicate directly and feeling of togetherness and closeness between each other.

"Emotionally in the family togetherness is very important. Sometimes we feel sorry when attention to the interaction of a family in a restaurant, where the father and two children busy with their laptops. While the mother was busy with smartphone it. They are together physically, but emotionally there is no unity because each busy with gadgetnya, "said Parenting Consultant is.

In a survey conducted by PT Kraft Foods Indonesia in Jakarta to 250 parents & ; children showed that about 70 percent of children they have gadget, the two main ones are mobile and laptop. This is one of the triggers of the three main problems faced by parents, namely the difficulty to communicate with children, difficult children feel directed, and difficult to understand the child.

While the three main problems that the child feels the parents rarely take the time with children, parents preoccupied with his gadgets, and the child is difficult to communicate with parents. "When interacting, the children feel irritable parents so that children feel frightened and eventually prefer not to communicate with their parents," he said.

Hanny said the survey results show about 5 of the 10 children found Like their parents angry. To that end, avoid negative emotions such as anger, upset, and disappointed when something is not in line with expectations.

"If something is not in accordance with your will, talk nicely without emotion, "he said.

The survey results also showed, one of 10 children feel close to her father and three of 10 children feel close to mother. One way that children can be close with both parents is by doing activities together.

"Try to spend some time each day at least 15 minutes wit h the family, for example by making breakfast, dinner, or worship together, "Hanny advice.

The same is also done by singers and movie player, Ariyo Wahab. She said the move with his family into a routine thing to do, such as their children perform a show, like singing and parents to be spectators. This activity is to build physical and emotional closeness, my wife and kids, "he said.

(SINDO / / FTR)