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So that the little smart collaboration. (Photo: Getty Images)

NOT is easier to teach children cooperation, especially while he was at times self-centered, where the children are very selfish.

But do not worry Moms , long accustomed too early collaboration capabilities will grow by itself. Like what to do? Farah Farida Tantiani, M. Psi and Dra. Sofia Hartati, M. Si, will explain it!

Train early
/> Cooperation is to help each other, need each other in doing something for the common goal. Cooperation is the behavior of Emotional Intelligence (EQ) is high, because the children understand the feelings of others and strive to establish good relations with other parties.

However, that does not mean the abi lity of cooperation will grow by itself when the child grew up. Cooperation must be fostered from an early age. Because, as a child when the child is (left) into an individualistic person, it is not impossible when you grow up he will be difficult to cooperate with others.

Actually, the potential of social skills is the forerunner of cooperation, has been around since the child was born.

However, this potential should be developed early in order to appear in children. About exactly when children are taught the cooperation is when children begin to play with peers in the group.

From simple things
/> Teach cooperation for children school age is different by applying the co-operation in adults. By educating children in collaboration means teaching the child that he needs others.

It is not easy for children to accept the presence of others, let alone who will ask something from him. So much needed parental patience.

Teach the child form of cooperation is generally more simple, such as care and teaching share common needs. Moms could make in such a way so that children can receive the presence of others.

For example, by the way, allowing the child to always play with her friends. Create situations that will make children need friends to play together.

If you are in school, can work together to teach or learn through group work. In the study group, the child can help his friend who had difficulty in understanding the lessons that are taught by teachers in schools.

While in group work, children can learn to cooperate in completing the task that has been given by the teacher. Within these groups, children can be involved to become a leader and as a member of the group.

Thus, in addition to learning about the materials they are also studying the role assigned as part of a group that must work together to achieve shared goals.

Tip successfully teach cooperation

- Children should not be out socializing. Early socialization of children in the family environment.
- Give the conditions that make children feel comfortable. For example, if the children are often treated harshly, as yelled, children tend to be negative. Automatic child is difficult to be invited to cooperate.
- Understand that the child is the egocentric. That is not something that should be resisted, but overcome with patience, example, understanding that mature on the child's development also creates situations that make children want to play with others. Can a brother, sister, parent, or with friends.
- Give the game that can make the child work together, like playing blocks. If outdoors, can play swing together. A single swing, the other swing ride; and turns.
- Parents remain creative and not bored to provide opportunities where children can m ingle with others. Children do not caged and left alone.
- a figure for the child's parents. Not just a good talker but provides a good example for children.
- Familiarize children perform the scope of cooperation activities at home such as cleaning the house. Do it with this routine can foster habits of cooperation that are good for children.
- Give an example to children. For example, fathers do not hesitate to help the mother in the kitchen for cooking come together. While in school, teachers can make a child are in a different group if it gave the task group.
- Children can also be motivated to follow a variety of student activities at the school for example.
- Remember that there are many ways of working, whether positive or negative way. (Source: Mom & Kiddie)

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