Myths Regarding Marriage (I)

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LOT myth evolved and is still believed to society. One of them, myths about marriage.

Here are leaked a few myths about marriage, as written Womansday.

marriage would make someone change

Just as with a sofa that can not be used, then he too will soon be sold. Couples too. Obviously he was very aware when he has to change. However, this does not mean that everyone can change or you can change a person as you wish.

For example, if he has a bad habit that you hate, this trend will not be changed by his love for you alone. Everything would need a process and support from you. So please be patient for a moment because over time, you can adapt to the habits of each and talk about it. One way to discuss these habits is to have dialogue back and talk heart to heart, so that you both do not engage clash of ideas and find a wise solution to menengahinya.

Once you are married, the life process has been completed

Personality will continue to proceed in a lifetime. Not that when you find the plain wedding, then the task was completed. This myth may make the growth stops and endanger the health of your marriage. So when you avoid to do something new for fear of your partner will change, then you will not love each other anymore. And by doing new things, your marriage and richer in color.

couples who marry must have the same interest

Many couples believe if their partner enjoy something, they also need to try to get the same thing. This is the impetus is less good because even though a bond together, does not mean you force yourself to do everything together. The important thing to remember is there is no rule that says you have to spend every moment together. Even for a healthy rapport, you can enjoy several activities separate from each other so that they feel more "fresh". In addition, make sure you find and nurture the things you both like, so it can spend quality time together.

husband should be your best friend

How many more songs of love that can mengeskpresikan that couples should be everything to each other? Yes, the husband is the number one person in your life, but he's not the only one.

sex marriage because of the need

This is just a myth that makes you lose the passion and unfettered one another. The truth is that sex should always be passionate, wild, and the new. Getting married for sex only create boredom because you are constrained by a requirement alone. So why not be free, more confident and secure, there by causing the connection is established with a maximum.
(Tty)